Maintain AtTRACTION

Maintain At Traction. Someone has to start doing it, and I hope to help us all do it. What exactly does this mean? If you don't know, I don't know if I can help you, really. Some basic knowledge is required. It's like bringing a horse to the water, only to realize that the horse can only drink caffeinated soda! Does this make sense? Well, I agree, it doesn't make any sense, but the point is there... I think..

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Thursday, January 31, 2008

Attraction Tips 1

  • From Zan (Interviewed by Lance Mason):
    • To develop extreme connection, within 90 minutes of a conversation on a date, do the following (Based off of Study done by Dr. Arthur Aaron, from USC(?), in 1991):
      1. Talk about a time in life when you were very embarrassed; date must reciprocate this.
      2. Talk about a time in life when you were really scared; date must reciprocate this.
      3. Talk about something about your parents, or how you would feel if you lost a parent.
      4. Interject to tell date, "Sorry to interject, but I had to tell you this. This is what I like about you so far..."
    • Keys to have a good relationship with women, even after a breakup.
      1. When they feel cheated, disrespected, or that you were dishonest.
      2. Example: "I don't know where this is going, but I ADORE you."
  • From Brent (Interviewed by Lance Mason):
    • In a social situation, gather information from women, move on to other groups, and then start connecting the groups together- become the social host.
    • If a woman asks a question, you can banter and not give a straight answer for couple times. However, when she keeps asking, give a straight answer, but then say, "but the other answers were more fun, weren't they?" Then you get permission to go back to being fun, while the woman knows you are real at the same time.
    • Brent started "Scripted Dates."